I hope you don't mind but I wanted to share with you something I heard this - this morning .... My friend has been writing a blog for the last year or so - to keep all the friends and family up to date with all the things that have been happening in their lives on a daily basis .... I'd get my cup of coffee every morning and read ..... sometimes it was emotional - sometimes it was very funny ( hearing about all the shernanigans ... of her trying to get him out of bed with a hoist etc !! ) but we've all been with her every step of the way ....... and now he's gone ! There are no adequate words to say ... are there ? .... except I'll say what she said at the very start ....